A Gentleman’s Take about Relationships: Allow for Great Expectations

I’ll be clear, I’m not a spineless gullible man, comfortably satisfied by watching junk tv missing the fun like a spoil sport. I’d bet nobody have never heard me talk much about great dating and companionship. That’s just me for ya.

Dependence is an unfortunate foreign condition and intentionally neglected in my genetics. But I do have a tender heart. I’ll level with you, I had no choice but to put the breaks on a worthwhile fling that meant something to me but essentially would never last. So you might say it may have been a while since I dated. I can’t find the great expectations Denver I used to enjoy.

I’m not used to being single. One thing is for sure, I don’t know how to sit tight, undisturbed, binging on Star Trek Enterprise reruns. The primary cause of this bout of incidental dating lameness? My coworkers are stiffs, and everyone else is boring.

My accomplished football pal, Andrew, who will never have dating boredom, sympathized because he is currently somewhere he can relate. He signed up for Great Expectations Denver. I enjoy meeting delightful chicas around my age. So I got real about my dating life and became a member.

The point is, you wouldn’t complain by being alone when you haven’t stepped off the bench. Just like my old football coach Terry Neelon carried on when his wife wasn’t looking, “You’re complaining to the competition, stupid.”

So he was divorced 4 times. But, the man was truly a wise sould without being self-righteous. He was likable in all ways. The fantastic series of singles events in Dallas here might’ve done a number on coach’s noggin’.

Through great expectations I shared a great evening with dozens quality and attractive ladies that hold my interest. I truthfully had a blast with dozens of pretty incredible men and women. Called it a night with an exchange of digits, and even grew some professional acquaintances for my job. Right on!

Put yourself in the play. You won’t complain if you don’t. Don’t sell yourself short, you might as well have great expectations for yourself.

Sincerely,

Caleb

Do You Want a Date or a Mate?

If you suppose you know everything there is to know about being a single girl, you should re-think it.

Not in a million years can we figure out ourselves never mind trying to figure, or control, another person. This is true particularly in the case of our men.

Wife or Mother?

Women have an built-in, and sometimes negative, inclination to want to help others. It doesn’t matter whether it’s to match our standards or merely to practice our parenting skills, we frequently cross the line between being a married woman and being a mom. Being a wife does require mothering (as in nurturing skills); in fact, they bank on comparable instincts. A married woman, however, has to know when to draw the line on mothering, or should we say smothering, and to be the admirer and devotee her hubby demands.

A man needs a strong woman at his side if he is going to fulfill his destiny, but a woman also has to realize that she needs her man to cover and protect her if she is going to fulfill hers.

Are you ready to make the leap from dating to waiting, but not sure what to do next? You need to start with Single Girl’s Guide #1: How to Become a Wife…Even if You’re Still Single. Learn at least 10 things you can do while you’re waiting.